“Real men don’t cry.“ “Stop being such a baby.“ “Suck it up and be a man.“ “You don’t have time for all that touchy-feely crap.“ Do any of these statements sound familiar to you? If they do, chances are you may have heard them from other men- your dad, your boss, your...
Shame in Marriage
The Power of Shame Shame is one of the most powerful and harmful feelings we all have as humans. Shame silently and secretly undermines many relationships. Marriage may be the relationship where shame does its most significant damage. It can work in secret when we...
5 Benefits of Premarital Counseling
5 Benefits of Premarital Counseling Why ask for help when everything feels great? ‘Happy, healthy, and head over heels’! Does this describe you? Or are you in the literal or metaphorical “honeymoon” phase of your relationship? If so, the last thing on your mind...
14 Great Date Night Gift Ideas
14 Great Date Night Gift Ideas! February is our favorite month here at Married Life Coaching & Counseling and we want to make it your favorite month too! We came up with 14 Great Date Night Gift Ideas to help make this Valentine’s Day a memorable one. Our goal...
Waffles and Spaghetti
WAFFLES AND SPAGHETTI One of my favorite videos to share with clients is 'Guys are like Waffles & Girls are like Spaghetti' on Youtube. It’s just a college kid drawing on a white board talking about the humorous differences between men and women and how they tend...
Empathy
EMPATHY Empathy is a big topic in the world of counseling and in pursuing thriving relationships. Even we, as counselors, trained to be empathic, have trouble expressing empathy. In couples counseling, I love sharing Brene Brown’s Empathy video on YouTube as a...
Mountains and Molehills
What makes a successful relationship? We might answer with commitment, quality time, unconditional love, or good communication. While all these things are important, let’s explore one aspect of communication that goes beyond the words we speak or don’t speak: paying...
Couples Counseling Resources
Couples Counseling and Coaching We are honored to provide couples counseling in hopes of healing hurts, restoring faith and trust, learning healthy communication, and rediscovering intimacy. This list of resources is intended to support and complement the ideas,...